Sunday, December 4, 2011

"BUT ITS NORMAL THAT BOYS ARE SOO.....ITS BECAUSE OF THEIR AGE...."

The world boasts about achieving equality between men and women at least in the major cities....Well here I would like to write down how women  responds to it......

I was unfortunately enrolled into GOVERNMENT SANSKRIT HSS...this year...Though This school is at the heart of COCHIN city , in kerala state..in India..I happen to witness  Brutal discrimination between Girls and Boys.... so far.... that they don't even conduct Sports for girls..

Given below is a real conversation of the lady teachers of my School giving advice to the girl  children  of the school.....Its  embarrassing to hear teachers giving advice to girls in such a way ,when they must be trying to wipe away the difference between Girls and Boys and Bring up them as an asset for the nation...

P.S..This is a school in the heart of a metropolitan city of India mainly aiming in promoting Sanskrit....

{The teachers have called up a meeting with the girls of that school after the morning assembly}

Teachers ; "You girls have a great liability on your heads...that is to become mothers and run a family...You have to maintain discipline in your life...and learn how to be subordinate to your parents, teachers and elders....


Because you are destined to be married off to another family and to adjust in that circumstances...

It is disgusting to find that you are keen on dating the guys in this school....Are you soo stupid ...???...Do you think they are going to marry you ???...NOO...They would date with you and use you..Later they would marry the girl proposed by their parents...


BUT ITS NORMAL THAT BOYS ARE SOO.....ITS BECAUSE OF THEIR AGE....It is girls who
must guard themselves...


Its normal that Boys would ogle at ladies..But girls must   maintain discipline in their lives...

They must wear neat ..whole body covered dresses..They must walk slowly without gaining attention...blah blah
.
You must never go and talk with boys so much...

.You have friends within you..right??? Then why do you need to talk with Boys...You keep a distance with them....Maintain a good behaviour....
..
& AIM AT BEING GOOD MOTHERS "


Boys can ogle at ladies ; can pass out rude comments on them ; can do anything they want...Its all justifiable on the basis that they are young and immature...What about girls, then?...How are they different???..Why is that society always condemn Girls even if  boys have committed mistakes...???...

Ironically , it is the women who are the most interested in upholding sex  discrimination...The above given situation is not rare in India..Majority of the Ladies are brought up to marry off, to bear children, to be subordinate to husband blah blah....

As you have seen , even in my school every girl is brought up to marry off...That is their only dream..And every boy is interested in flirting, dating, making rude comments about girls, and finally after their desire is over throwing them away like rubbish....But still our Teachers and this whole society would justify it ,saying;

"BUT ITS NORMAL THAT BOYS ARE SOO.....ITS BECAUSE OF THEIR AGE...."

What about the girls ,then??? Are they against this???

The answer is a plain     NO


Girls Think that they should be subordinate to guys and be GOOD MOTHERS...They want to get married soon and have a life that they unfortunately, get to see only in films..One day ...during our interval ,I heard my classmate Archana saying to her friend Meenu.."Oh my God!! If I could get married soon"...I sat there shell-shocked hearing  her comment..If you ask them ..."Don't you want to score good marks in the exams" ..Their reply would be..
"Noo..its okay if girls didn't score marks..we can get married..After all, who is concerned about education of the bride"

I feel sorry for them because they have been caught in the wheel of marriage and death..They don't know if there's another world for a girl..There world is restricted to the world of a girl as said by their teachers; by their mothers; by their grandma...and they forbid themselves from coming into the world of an individual...To them a girl must be silent;subordinate;lacking aims; moreover an object to marry off....Poor them!!!! They curse themselves for being born as a girl and desires each second to be born as a boy....

We say Education can bring up the status of women...but what if education is provieded in the above mentioned way,....Well the answer is simple....Till now the population of India was a liability as they weren't educated...Now onwards, population of India will be a liability as they are educated....
PITY!!!!!




.NO MATTER  HOW  MANY INDIRA GANDHIS ARE  BORN


 THEY HAVE CHOSEN NOT TO CHANGE......what can I say???




!!!!With Love!!!!